Most of us have grudgingly adjusted to the new normal: working from home 100% of the time; no social outings, let alone trips to the store; no soccer games, lessons, or extracurricular activities; no dinners at restaurants or movies at the theater. After all, we have no choice. In my family’s case, we have even taken the precaution of no longer grocery shopping in the store. Instead we order groceries and essential non-perishables for home delivery. Our ventures out of the house have been limited, until recently, to strolls through the neighborhood.
However, as the days of the same routine blend into weeks (and months?), I have discovered a few unexpected pleasures, and at least one happy surprise.
More time to relax and snooze. We no longer have to wake at five in the morning to get ready for the day and help our daughter arrive at school in downtown Raleigh, a forty minute journey, by 7:30. This translates into more sleep and therefore more relaxation! Likewise, we don’t have to rush in the late afternoon to finish up tasks at work and then shepherd our daughter to soccer practice or piano lessons while trying to whip up a quick dinner. Once again, the lack of hustle and bustle means less stress and more quiet time.
More time to exercise and cook. Besides the days when my calendar is full of back-to-back meetings, I’m also able to exercise a bit more: either by hopping onto the elliptical trainer in our bonus room for forty to fifty minutes, or by enjoying a walk through the neighborhood in the sunny spring weather. Granted, my current job (begun in November, pre-pandemic) primarily enables me to work-from-home, except for the occasional trips to Boulder, Colorado, where the rest of my team is based. Nonetheless, I find I go outside more frequently now, if only to escape being stuck indoors. I also have more time to cook unique meals; and in particular, I’ve baked more: almond flour cheese bread and apple strudel.
Lower Expenses. By not going out, we spend less, though I realize this is a trend that doesn’t bode well for the economy at large. Whereas before we would call a plumber to repair a broken dishwasher disposal, now my husband has decided to assume DIY projects to retain social distancing and avoid having someone enter our house. And as a bonus, he’s doing a great job with these home repairs! Likewise, rather than hiring someone to clean our house every two weeks, the three of us split up chores: cleaning bathrooms, vacuuming and emptying garbage, mopping floors, cleaning the kitchen. To our surprise, this group effort reduces the house cleaning time to about two or three hours every couple of weeks. And finally, knowing how difficult it is to have groceries delivered when we need them, we are careful not to waste food and to buy only what we know we will eat. (We freeze the rest and check our freezer before replenishing items).
More time to write and read on the weekends. Pre-COVID-19, we typically bustled on the weekends: waking early to shuttle our daughter to a soccer game or lesson, hurrying to buy groceries and do laundry. Now, blissfully, without anywhere to go, we can sleep in a little longer, and enjoy our morning coffee. Since I’m a morning person, I have more time to write on weekend mornings, which tend to be the best time to unleash my creativity. That means that even though our trip to California (and Yosemite) this summer must be postponed, I can still make progress on my second novel, in which the action takes place both in San Francisco and Yosemite. Sure, I can’t be there in the flesh to soak up details, but I have two to three great reference books (not to mention online research) that I can use as guides. What’s more, I can read a little more (though even pre-quarantine I was always reading, even if it was only for twenty minutes before bed to relax). And then, my husband and I can enjoy some shows on NetFlix and Amazon Prime that we wouldn’t have had the time to watch before. Added bonus: Fantastic musicals, such as Les Miserables and Phantom of the Opera, have been released for free streaming.
Online Virtual Book Launch Party! In a previous post, I discussed how difficult it has been, as a writer of Western fiction who lives in North Carolina, to find local booksellers willing to carry my title, let alone allow me to give a reading at their store. In fact, my best prospect was in Boulder, Colorado, where the fabulous Boulder Bookstore agreed to carry my books on consignment, and would have allowed me a speaking event, had I been a local resident with a cadre of readers. That said, now that all public events have been canceled, anyway, as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic, I have found a new venue for launching my novel: an online book launch party, via zoom, on Thursday, April 23, at 8pm ET. I’m thrilled to have the opportunity for friends and family, scattered across the country, to attend “virtually,” whereas even if I had been lucky enough to land a speaking slot at one of the local bookstores, friends and relatives in California, Colorado, Texas, Massachusetts, New York, and elsewhere would have been unable to attend. At the launch party, I plan to do a couple of short readings, answer Q&A, and raffle off one autographed copy of my novel, and two electronic copies. Maybe this will become a new precedent. :)
More time with the family. Our twelve-year-old daughter, Lara, has adjusted surprisingly well to the new routine, and has taken the online learning and remote assignments in stride. In fact, she seems a little more happy and relaxed than she did, pre-quarantine, when hustling from a long bus ride home from school to soccer practice and homework. We’ve enjoyed a few silly moments when she tried to teach me a couple of “Tik-Tok” dances. On her own, after finishing her school work, Lara goes outside more often to play, kick her soccer ball, ride her bike, and be a kid. After dinner, she volunteers to wash the dishes in order to have time to herself while my husband and I take an evening stroll around the neighborhood and catch up on adult conversations - something that was difficult to do pre-quarantine.
Surprising Pleasure in Nature! Lara’s outdoor adventures led us to this biggest pleasant surprise! Our house sits on about an acre of land, most of which is wooded with loblolly pines and oak trees behind our property, ending at a creek. I went down to the creek a few times many years ago, but the dense brush and tree roots, unexpected culverts and holes, and possibility of snakes and ticks, have dissuaded me from going in recent years. As a twelve-year-old, Lara has none of my fear and all the youthful excitement of exploring and trying new adventures. For several weeks, she regaled us at the dinner table with tales about playing at the creek.
Last weekend, my husband and I accompanied her down a makeshift trail she forged behind our house. After avoiding the tree roots, large mole/gopher holes, and taking care not to fall, we arrived at the pleasant stream, bordered by trees. After a little negotiation, we found a safe space to cross the creek, hopping from boulder to boulder, and found ourselves on a dirt trail that weaves through the woods, bordering the back of houses in the neighborhood behind ours. In April, you can inhale fresh pine and cool breezes here. What a delight!